When I was 12 years old, an orgasm happened to me inadvertently in the shower. For some strange reason, after or during this shower, as weird as it sounds, I got very tired — I don't recall any other reason — that I lay down on the shower floor.
Then a little while later I started feeling this tingly sensation in my penis, because a stream from the showerhead was hitting just below my penis head. Very soon I startlingly sat up because my breathing became fast and irregular; I was a little scared!
I am a year-old circumcised man who has been very happily married for 44 years and yet still indulges in the pleasurable pastime of masturbation. I suppose I must have been about 10 years old when I first discovered that by playing with my penis it would stiffen and produce a delightful sensation. My elder brother had already reached puberty, and he showed me the "fist" method so that I could induce the wonderful feeling that I later My brother punches me masturbate to be an orgasm.
I started noticing differences between boys and girls' bodies in nursery school. The boys and girls didn't have separate restrooms; I thought that girls had to urinate sitting down because their penises weren't fully developed like boys of course we urinated standing.
I grew up on a farm, and although I had seen animals having sex, I hadn't had "the talk" from my parents when I first learned about masturbation. The conversation worked around to girls and sex. They asked if we knew about masturbation; we said, "What's that? Having no terms for any of this, I called the orgasm a "thrill" — which it was.
I've long wanted to talk about masturbating.
The problem is that in my society South Africait's regarded as either childish or perverse or both! Only two people I know have admitted that they enjoy this activity, and even they tend to shrug it off as something to do between sexual encounters. Now, we know that masturbation is something quite different to sexual intercourse.